Kuvalelisa izihlobo ngephupho
Ukubona izihlobo ephusheni kuyinkomba yezibopho zomndeni kanye nobuhlobo obuseduze bomndeni.
Lapho umuntu ephupha evalelisa ilungu lomndeni, lokhu kubonisa ukukhulumisana okuqinile nokukhathalela abathandekayo.
Kungenzeka ukuthi ukubona ubaba evalelisa ephusheni kufanekisela isidingo somuntu sokusekelwa nokusekelwa, ukubhekana nezimo ezinzima, noma ukuhlukaniswa noyise.
Lawa maphupho angaba futhi uphawu lokuthi umuntu ulungele ukuqala isigaba esisha empilweni yakhe, futhi afune ukuzimela noshintsho.
Lapho ubona ukuvalelisa ngokujwayelekile ephusheni, lokhu kubonisa ukuvalelisa ezinkingeni nezinkinga umuntu angase abhekane nazo empeleni.
Ukubona ukuvalelisa emndenini ephusheni kungase kube inkomba yokungaphezu kwalokho, njengoba kufanekisela ukuvalelisa ezinkingeni, izinkinga, nokukhathazeka umuntu angase ahlupheke ngakho isikhathi esithile.
Kuwesifazane oshadile, ukuvalelisa emndenini noma ezihlotsheni zakhe ephusheni kungase kube nencazelo enhle, njengoba kubonisa ukunyamalala kokukhathazeka nezinkinga ezingase ziphazamise ukuphila kwakhe.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, umbono wokuvalelisa kanyeEkhala ephusheni Kungaba inkomba yokunqoba isigaba esinzima empilweni, noma ushintsho olwenzeka empilweni yomuntu.
Lapho owesifazane oshadile ezibona evalelisa umkhaya wakhe, lokhu kungase kubonise uhambo nokuhlukana okungenzeka kuhlangatshezwane nakho.
Uma owesifazane oshadile ezibona evalelisa kumuntu amzondayo ephusheni, lokhu kungase kube inkomba yokuthi isimo sakhe sizoshintsha futhi izindaba zakhe zizoshintsha zibe ngcono.
Nokho, uma owesifazane oshadile ezibona evalelisa kumuntu amthandayo ephusheni, lokhu kungase kubonise isifiso sakhe sokulondoloza ubuhlobo obuseduze nobuqinile nalo muntu.
Ngokuvamile, iphupho mayelana nokuvalelisa kosebenza nabo lingahunyushwa njengenkomba yokuthi umuntu uzothola ukukhushulwa noma ukuthuthukisa isimo sakhe somsebenzi kanye nomsebenzi.
Ukuvalelisa ezihlotsheni ephusheni owesifazane oshadile
Owesifazane oshadile ngezinye izikhathi ubona emaphusheni akhe iphupho mayelana nokuvalelisa kumalungu omndeni, futhi leli phupho lingase libe nezincazelo ezahlukene.
Ukuvalelisa ezihlotsheni kungase kusho ukukhokha izikweletu zakhe noma ukufeza izibopho zakhe zezimali.
Leli phupho lingase libe yinkomba yokuthi usekulungele ukwenza izinguquko ezithile empilweni yakhe, okungenzeka kube ngokuhamba noma ukuthuthela kwenye indawo kude nabathandekayo bakhe nomndeni.
Lapho owesifazane oshadile evalelisa ezihlotsheni ephusheni, lokhu kuvalelisa ngokuvamile kungabonakalisa isifiso esinamandla sokuqeda izinkathazo nezinkinga abhekana nazo empeleni.
Ngokwesibonelo, uma owesifazane oshadile ezizwa edabukile lapho ebona enye yezingane zakhe ivalelisa, lokhu kungase kube ubufakazi bokuthi ubhekene nenkathi enzima nenzima ezimweni zakhe, kodwa uyozinqoba lezi zinkinga.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma owesifazane oshadile ezibona evalelisa kumuntu amzondayo ephusheni, lokhu kungase kube inkomba yokuthi isimo sakhe sesishintshile futhi useya esigabeni esingcono kakhulu ekuphileni kwakhe.
Uma owesifazane oshadile ezibona evalelisa emndenini wakhe, lokhu kungase kubonise isifiso sakhe sokuhamba nokuhlala kude nomndeni wakubo nendawo ayijwayele.
Nakuba ukubona umfazi evalelisa ephusheni kungase kubonise isifiso somyeni nomkakho ukuqeda izinkinga nobunzima ababhekana nabo ekuphileni kwabo.
Ukuvalelisa izihlobo ephusheni labesifazane abangashadile
Ukubona owesifazane ongashadile evalelisa ezihlotsheni ephusheni kuwuphawu oluhle olubonisa ushintsho oluhle empilweni yowesifazane ongashadile.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi zingobani lezi zihlobo, ukuvaleliswa kubonisa ukuthi owesifazane ongashadile uzosuka emzini wakubo aye emzini womyeni wakhe esikhathini esizayo esiseduze.
Iphupho lokuvalelisa lapha lingahunyushwa njengezindaba ezinhle zokufika kwesimo esisha senjabulo nenduduzo empilweni yakhe ezayo yomshado, lapho ezokwazi khona ukwakha impilo yomshado ejabulisayo nezinzile.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, iphupho lokuvalelisa kowesifazane ongashadile lingabonakalisa ubuhlobo obuzayo bothando esikhathini esizayo.
Leli phupho lingase libe ubufakazi besikhathi somshado esisondelayo kanye nokuvela kwethuba lowesifazane ongashadile ukuba angene ebuhlotsheni obusha bomzwelo obuthela izithelo.
Kungase kube khona umuntu othize empilweni yowesifazane ongashadile ozoshiya umthelela ojulile futhi uzosebenza njengomlingani wakhe wesikhathi esizayo othandweni nenjabulo Ukubona owesifazane ongashadile evalelisa ezihlotsheni ephusheni kubonisa ushintsho oluhle olwenzeka kumuntu wesifazane ongashadile ukuphila, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi lokho kungomshado noma ukuqala ubuhlobo obusha bezothando.
Owesifazane ongashadile angase abhekane nezikhathi ezinzima nezinselele kule nqubo, kodwa ekugcineni uzojabula futhi azinzile empilweni yakhe entsha.
Ukubona ukuvalelisa nokuvalelisa ephusheni kunikeza owesifazane ongashadile ithemba nethemba ngekusasa lakhe elizayo futhi kubonisa ukuthi uzofeza izifiso nenjabulo ayifisayo.
Incazelo yokuvalelisa nokukhala ephusheni
Ukuhunyushwa kokuvalelisa nokukhala ephusheni kubhekwa njengenye yezimpawu ezivamile emhlabeni wokuchazwa kwamaphupho.
Inezincazelo ezahlukene futhi ingase ishiye umthelela omkhulu ekuchazeni isimo somuntu siqu.
Uma umuntu ebona ephusheni othile evalelisa kuye, lokhu kungase kube inkomba yokungabi khona kwakhe kulo muntu noma ukungabi khona komuntu kuye.
Leli phupho lingase futhi liveze umuzwa womuntu wesizungu kanye nokwehlukana.
Nokho, uma ebona umngane wakhe evalelisa kuye ephusheni, kungase kusho ukuthi umuntu udinga usizo nosizo lwalo mngane.
Leli phupho lingase libe yinkomba yokuthi umuntu udinga amandla nokusekelwa kumngane wakhe ekubhekaneni nezinselele zempilo.
Kodwa-ke, uma ebona owesifazane ongaziwa evalelisa komunye, lokhu kungase kuhunyushwe ngokuthi kukhona ukungezwani nezinkinga phakathi kwabantu abathintekayo.
Umuntu angase ahlupheke ngenxa yalokhu kungaboni ngaso linye futhi afune ukukuxazulula nokuthola izindlela zokubuyisana.
Kwabesifazane abangashadile, ukuphupha ukuvalelisa kumuntu ongaziwa kungase kube uphawu lobuhlobo bothando esikhathini esizayo.
Leli phupho lingase lihunyushwe ngokuthi kukhona ushintsho oluzayo noma ukuthuthukiswa kwesimo somzwelo.
Ngokuvamile, iphupho lokuvalelisa nokukhala ephusheni lowesifazane ongashadile libhekwa njengento enhle ephethe izimpawu ezinhle.
Uma intombazane ilala phezu komuntu wokuvalelisa ngaphandle kokukhala, lokhu kusho ukuthi maduze uzojabulela izindaba ezinhle nezijabulisayo ekuphileni kwakhe.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, u-Ibn Sirin uxwayisa ngokuthi ukubona ukuvalelisa nokukhala ephusheni kungase kube inkomba yokuza koshintsho olubi noma izinkinga ekuphileni komuntu.
Kuyalulekwa ukuthi ungaphathi abantu abathile ngendlela yokubusa noma wenze izinhlelo nabo.
Ngokuvamile, ukuphupha ukuvalelisa nokukhala ephusheni kubhekwa njengenkomba yokugcwaliseka kwezifiso nezifiso nokufinyelela imigomo oyifunayo empilweni yomuntu siqu neyomsebenzi.
Lokhu kungase kube ubufakazi besigaba esisha ekuphileni, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuwushintsho olungokoqobo noma olungokomzwelo.
Ukuchazwa kwephupho mayelana nokubona usisi
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokuvalelisa kudadewenu kungase kube nezincazelo ezahlukene futhi kuchazwe ngezindlela eziningi.Kungase kusho ukuthi ungase uzizwe ulahlekelwe ubuhlobo bakho nodadewenu noma ukuhamba kwakhe esiteji esisha empilweni yakhe.
Kungase futhi kubonise ukuthi kungenzeka ushiya abantu ababalulekile empilweni yakho, noma kungase kube inkomba yohambo lwakho noma ukubuya kohambo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, iphupho lokuvalelisa kudade lihunyushwa njengenkomba yokusondela komshado womunye wabo.
Leli phupho lingase libe ubufakazi bokuthi udadewenu uyashada, athuthele emzini omusha, futhi akhe impilo entsha.
Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi lezi zincazelo ziwukuhlaziywa okujwayelekile kokuchazwa kwamaphupho, futhi izincazelo zabo zangempela zingase zihluke kuye ngokuthi umongo womuntu siqu namasiko womphuphi.
Kuvalelisa umama ephusheni
Ukuvalelisa kumama wakho ephusheni kungase kube nezincazelo eziningi.
Kungase kufanekisela ukuhlukana noshintsho esimweni somphuphi.
Nokho, kungase futhi kube uphawu oluhle.
Lokhu kungase kusho ukuthi umuntu oshadile ukulungele ukuthwala umthwalo wemfanelo owengeziwe ekuphileni kwakhe futhi ukulungele ukwamukela izinguquko.
Ngokusho kwezazi zokuhumusha amaphupho, iphupho mayelana nokuvalelisa kumama womuntu lingase lifanekisela umshado womuntu uma engashadile.
Ukuhunyushwa kuka-Ibn Sirin kubonisa ukuthi ukubona intombazane engashadile ivalelisa ephusheni kubonisa umshado wayo nohambo lwayo.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukubona umthandi evalelisa ephusheni kungase kube isibonakaliso sokufa kwesikhundla esibalulekile, isehlukaniso somfazi womuntu, ukufa komuntu ogulayo, noma ukushiya izwe lakubo noma ukushiya imboni.
Incazelo yokubona ukuvalelisa kumama womuntu ephusheni ingahunyushwa ngezindlela ezingaphezu kweyodwa.
Kuvalelisa umama oshonile ephusheni
Ukuhumusha iphupho mayelana nokuvalelisa kumama oshonile kungase kube nzima ngoba ukubona othandekayo oshonile ephusheni ngokuvamile kubhekwa njengokuxhumana okujulile ngokomzwelo kumphuphi.
Leli phupho lingase libonise ukuthi umphuphi ulwa nosizi lokulahlekelwa unina futhi kungase kudingeke acabange ngezindlela zokubhekana nale mizwa.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, iphupho mayelana nokuvalelisa kumama oshonile lingahunyushwa njengobufakazi bokuthi umphuphi udinga ukunxusa nokuthandazela umphefumulo kanina futhi angathola induduzo nokuthula emthandazweni nasekukhulumeni noNkulunkulu.
Uma umphuphi ebona ephusheni lakhe ukuthi uvalelisa kumama wakhe oshonile, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuthi izinguquko ezinkulu zizokwenzeka ekuphileni kwakhe esikhathini esizayo esiseduze.
Angase ashintshe umsebenzi wakhe, afudukele endaweni entsha yokuhlala, noma abhekane nezinkinga osekunesikhathi eside zikhona.
Leli phupho lingase libe inkomba yokuqala kwesahluko esisha empilweni yomphuphi.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuvalelisa ephusheni kuthathwa njengombono ojabulisayo nojabulisayo, njengoba kubonisa ukwenzeka kwenzuzo enkulu nokuthola ukuchuma okuningi.
Uma umphuphi ebona unina ephusheni evalelisa kuye, lokhu kungase kube inkomba yokuthi umphuphi uzohamba nohambo lokuhamba, okungenzeka kube uhambo lwebhizinisi noma uhambo lokuhlola endaweni entsha.
Ukuchazwa kwephupho mayelana nokubona umhambi
Otolika bakholelwa ukuthi ukubona ukuvalelisa kumhambi ephusheni kungase kube nezincazelo eziningi.
Leli phupho lingase lifanekisela isifiso somphuphi sokulwela nokuphumelela empilweni yakhe, futhi kungase kubonise ukuzwa izindaba ezinhle ngalo muntu, kodwa ngokuqinisekile uNkulunkulu kuphela owaziyo lokho.
Leli phupho ngokuvamile libhekwa njengobufakazi bokusondela kokukhululeka kokukhathazeka, ukushabalala kosizi, nokuphulukiswa.
Uma umphuphi ehlushwa yinoma yikuphi ukuhlupheka noma izinkinga empilweni yakhe, ukubona ukuvalelisa kumuntu ohambayo kubonisa ukuthi ukuphela kwalezi zinkinga kungase kusondele.
Leli phupho libhekwa njengenkomba yezinguquko ezithile empilweni yomuntu siqu yomphuphi.
Kungase kubonise ukuthi usezohamba noma ashintshe indawo yakhe yokuhlala unomphela.
Ukuvalelisa ephusheni kungase futhi kubonise ukuhlukaniswa komuntu othize empilweni yomphuphi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukuhlukana kwemizwelo noma ukuhlukana okungokoqobo nokuyeka ukusebenzelana nalo muntu.
Lo mbono ubalulekile nakumuntu wesifazane ongashadile.
Uma owesifazane ongashadile ephupha ukuvalelisa kumhambi, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi useseduze nokusuka ekhaya lomndeni wakhe aye emzini womyeni wakhe wesikhathi esizayo.
Lo mbono ungase ubhekwe njengenye yezimpawu eziqine kakhulu ukuthi, esimweni sowesifazane ongashadile, ubonisa ukuthi umshado useduze, futhi kuyithuba lokuqala impilo entsha, ukwakha ikhaya, nokusungula umndeni ojabulisayo.
