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Thatha umakhalekhukhwini ephusheni

Ukuphupha ukwanga umakhalekhukhwini ephusheni kungase kubonise isifiso sakho sokuxhumana nabanye futhi kuqinise ukuxhumana nabantu empilweni yakho.
Ungase uzizwe unesidingo sokuhlala uxhumana njalo nabangane bakho nomndeni wakho, futhi leli phupho lingaba isikhumbuzo sesidingo sokuxhumana nokuxhumana nabanye empilweni yangempela.

Enye yezincazelo ezingenzeka zephupho mayelana nokuthatha umakhalekhukhwini ukuthi libonisa isimo sokukhathazeka noma ukukhathazeka okungenzeka ukuthi ubhekene nakho.
Ungase ukhathazeke ngokungakhulumisani kahle noma ukuphuthelwa ngamathuba abalulekile noma imisebenzi yokuzijabulisa.
Ifoni ephathekayo kuleli phupho ingase ibe uphawu lokududuza kwengqondo nokuxhumana okubushelelezi, futhi imizwa yokukhathazeka ingavela emaphusheni akho ngale ndlela.

Ukuphupha ugone umakhalekhukhwini kungaba wukubonakaliswa kwesifiso sakho sokufeza izinhloso zakho nezifiso zakho.
Iselula ingase ifanekisele indlela yokuxhumana nolwazi, futhi kungenzeka uzama ukuqala iphrojekthi entsha noma ukuxhumana nomuntu obalulekile ongakusiza ukufeza isifiso sakho.
Leli phupho lingaba isikhumbuzo kuwe sokuthi unamandla namandla okuzuza lokho okufunayo.

Ukuphupha ukwanga umakhalekhukhwini ephusheni kungase kube umfanekiso wokuzihlukanisa nokuntuleka kokuxhumana nabantu.
Mhlawumbe uzizwa unesizungu noma unesizungu empilweni yakho, futhi ufuna ukuxhumana nabanye futhi uzizwe ubandakanyeka emphakathini.
Leli phupho lingakhombisa ukubaluleka kokuxhumana nabantu kuwe kanye nesidingo sakho sokuxhumana nokuxhumana nabantu abaseduze kwakho.

Ukuphupha uthatha umakhalekhukhwini ephusheni kungakhombisa ukuxhumana okuqinile onakho namadivayisi ezobuchwepheshe kanye nomakhalekhukhwini.
Leli phupho libonisa ukuthembela kwakho kakhulu kwezobuchwepheshe kanye nenkolelo yakho yokuthi umakhalekhukhwini uyindlela ebalulekile yokuxhumana nokufinyelela olwazini olubalulekile.

Ukubona ifoni ephusheni yowesifazane oshadile

1. Uma owesifazane oshadile ebona ifoni exhunywe ephusheni lakhe, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuthi kukhona ucingo olubalulekile oluseduze oluvela kumuntu obalulekile empilweni yakhe.
   Kungase kube nezindaba ezinhle noma ithuba lokuphumelela emsebenzini elikulindele.
   Kufanele bavuleleke futhi balungele ukuthola leli thuba.
2. Uma owesifazane oshadile ephupha ukulahlekelwa ifoni yakhe ephusheni, lokhu kungase kufanekisele umuzwa wakhe wokukhathazeka ngokulahlekelwa ukuxhumana noma ukuxhumana nomlingani wakhe wokuphila.
   Lokhu kungase futhi kubonise isidingo sokuzibophezela ekukhulumisaneni okuhle nomlingani wakhe nokuqinisekisa ukuzinza kobudlelwane bomshado.
3. Uma owesifazane oshadile ephupha ukubona ifoni yakhe iphukile ephusheni, lokhu kungase kufanekisele ubunzima noma izinselele empilweni yakhe yomshado.
   Kungase kube khona ukungaboni ngaso linye noma izinkinga ezidinga ukuxazululwa phakathi kwakhe nesithandwa sakhe.
   Kumele aqaphele futhi azame ukulungisa izinto ukuze lezi zinkinga zingaphazamisi ubudlelwano.
4. Uma owesifazane oshadile ephupha ebona ifoni yakhe ivaliwe ephusheni, lokhu kungase kubonise umuzwa wakhe wokungakwazi ukuxhumana noma ukuvuleka ebuhlotsheni bakhe bomshado.
   Angase azizwe engaqiniseki noma ephephile ukukhuluma ngezinkinga noma imicabango yakhe nomlingani wakhe wempilo.
   Kufanele alwele ukuthola ukwethenjwa kanye nekhono lokuxhumana ngokukhululekile nomlingani wakhe.
5. Uma owesifazane oshadile ebona ifoni entsha ephusheni lakhe, lokhu kungase kufanekisele ushintsho oluhle oluzayo empilweni yakhe yomshado.
   Kungase kube nentuthuko ekukhulumisaneni nasekuxhumaneni nomlingani wakhe noma ngisho nesipiliyoni esimangalisayo nesijabulisayo.
   Kumelwe alungele ukujabulela nokuzuza kulezi zinguquko ezinhle.

Umakhalekhukhwini ephusheni yizindaba ezinhle

Ukubona umakhalekhukhwini ephusheni kungase kubonise isifiso sakho sokuxhumana nokuzijabulisa.
Kungase kube nesidingo sokukhuluma nabanye, ukuveza imicabango yakho, nokuhlanganyela imizwa yakho.

Ukubona umakhalekhukhwini ephusheni kubhekwa njengesibonakaliso sokuthi izindaba ezinhle zizofika maduze.
Amathuba amasha noma intuthuko enhle ingase ivele phambi kwakho empilweni yakho yomuntu siqu noma yomsebenzi.

Ukuphupha ngomakhalekhukhwini kungase kubhekwe njengesango lokuxhumana nomhlaba kamoya futhi kudonse ugqozi lokuhlakanipha nesiqondiso.
Uma uzibona ukhuluma ngomakhalekhukhwini ephusheni, lokhu kungase kube inkomba yesifiso sakho sokuthola isiqondiso esibalulekile noma imibono evela emithonjeni ephakeme.

Ukubona umakhalekhukhwini ephusheni kungase kube isikhumbuzo kuwe ngokubaluleka kokulungiswa ukuguqulwa noshintsho empilweni yakho.
Lo mbono ungase ubonise ukuthi kufanele ulungiselele ukuziphendukela kwemvelo futhi uvumelane nezimo ezintsha ezingase zikufikele.

Ukuphupha ngomakhalekhukhwini kungaba isikhumbuzo sokubaluleka kokuzinakekela nokuhlangabezana nezidingo zakho.
Kungase kudingeke uzibeke kuqala futhi uzinike isikhathi sokuphumula nokuphumula.

Uphawu lwefoni ephathekayo ephusheni nguFahd Al-Osaimi

1. Uma ubona umakhalekhukhwini ephusheni lakho, lokhu kungase kube inkomba yokuxhumana okubalulekile okukulindile empilweni yangempela.
   Lokhu kuxhumana kungase kube ingxoxo ebalulekile nomunye umuntu, ithuba elisha lomsebenzi, noma ithuba lokuhamba.
   Qiniseka ukuthi uzimisele ukuphendula lolu cingo futhi unikeze ithuba lempumelelo enkulu empilweni yakho.
2. Ukubona isithonjana seselula ephusheni kungase kubonise isidingo sakho sokuxhumana nokuxhumana nabanye.
   Ungase uzizwe unesizungu noma ungeyena owakho, futhi ukubona umakhalekhukhwini wakho kukukhumbuza ukubaluleka kokuxhumana nabangane nomndeni nokukhetha ukuhlanganyela kwezokuhlalisana.
   Ungangabazi ukubheka amathuba okuxhumana nokuxhumana nalabo abaseduze kwakho ukuze uthuthukise impilo yakho yezenhlalo nengokomzwelo.
3. Ukubona isithonjana seselula kwesinye isikhathi kuthathwa njengophawu lokusungula izinto ezintsha nentuthuko yezobuchwepheshe.
   Kungase kubonise ukuthi unesifiso sokuhlola ubuchwepheshe besimanje noma ukusebenza emkhakheni wezobuchwepheshe.
   Ungase ube nemibono emisha yokuthuthukisa imikhiqizo noma amasevisi ahlobene nobuchwepheshe.
   Sebenzisa leli thuba ukuthuthukisa amakhono akho futhi uzuze inqubekelaphambili emkhakheni wokuqamba izinto ezintsha nobuchwepheshe.
4. Ukuthembela kakhulu kubuchwepheshe:
   Uma ubona iselula ebambekile ephusheni lakho, kungase kube isikhumbuzo kuwe sokuthi ungase uncike kakhulu kubuchwepheshe ekuphileni kwakho kwansuku zonke.
   Lokhu kungase kubonise ukuthi kufanele ugxile ebudlelwaneni bangempela futhi ube nesikhathi esimnandi ngaphandle kokusebenzisa njalo umakhalekhukhwini wakho.
   Zama ukwenza ibhalansi enempilo phakathi kobuchwepheshe, ukuchitha isikhathi nabanye, nokujabulela izikhathi zangempela empilweni yakho.
5. Ukubona uphawu lwefoni ephathekayo ephusheni kungase kubonise isidingo senkululeko nenkululeko empilweni yakho.
   Ungase uzizwe uvinjelwe noma ukhawulelwe kwezinye izici, futhi ukubona iselula kukukhumbuza ukuthi kukunikeza ikhono lokuxhuma kanye nokufinyelela olwazini oluhlukahlukene.
   Sebenzisa lolu phawu ukuze ucabange ngezindlela ezintsha zokugqashula emigoqweni futhi uthole inkululeko empilweni yakho yobungcweti neyomuntu siqu.

Uphawu lweselula ephusheni

1. Ukubona umakhalekhukhwini ephusheni kungase kubonise ukuxhumana nokuxhumana.
   Ungase ube nesidingo esiphuthumayo sokuxhumana nomuntu othize, noma isifiso sokuxhumana okujulile komphakathi.
   Ngezinye izikhathi, leli phupho lingase libonise isifiso sakho sokuxhumana noNkulunkulu noma ukufuna ubukhona obungokomoya.
2. Ifoni ephathekayo ephusheni ingase ibonise isifiso sakho sokuphumula nokuzijabulisa.
   Ungase ufune ukuba nesikhathi sokuzijabulisa nesokuthula futhi ubalekele ekucindezelekeni kokuphila kwansuku zonke.
   Ukubona umakhalekhukhwini ephusheni kungase kube inkomba yokuthi udinga ukulinganisela impilo yakho futhi ucabange ngenduduzo yakho siqu.
3.  Ukubona umakhalekhukhwini ephusheni kungase kufanekisele inqubekelaphambili yezobuchwepheshe kanye nezinto ezintsha ezintsha emhlabeni.
   Mhlawumbe lo mbono uyisu lokuthola amakhono amasha noma ukucinga izindlela zokuthuthukisa impilo yakho yobungcweti neyomuntu siqu.
4. Ukubona umakhalekhukhwini ephusheni kungase futhi kubonise ukusondelana nebanga.
   Kungase kubonise isifiso sakho sokuhlala kude nabanye abantu abangalungile noma izehlakalo empilweni yakho.
   Ngokulandelayo, ungase ufune ukusondelana nomuntu noma uqinise ubudlelwano obukhona kakade.
5.  Uphawu lwefoni ephathekayo ephusheni luhunyushwa njengobufakazi benqubekelaphambili nempumelelo.
   Iphupho lingase libonise inqubekelaphambili emsebenzini wakho, noma amathuba amasha okuphumelela nokuthuthuka komuntu siqu.

Uphawu lweselula ephusheni lowesifazane ohlukanisile

1. Uma owesifazane ohlukanisile ephupha ngomakhalekhukhwini, lokhu kubonisa ukubaluleka kokuxhumana empilweni yakhe.
   Iphupho lingase libe yisikhumbuzo kuye ngesidingo sokuxhumana namalungu omndeni wakhe nabangane, nokushintshana ngezindaba ezibalulekile nolwazi.
2. Ifoni ephathekayo ephusheni ifanekisela ukuzimela kanye nekhono lokulawula impilo yakhe.
   Iphupho lingase libonise isifiso sowesifazane ohlukanisile sokuthola impumelelo yomsebenzi noma yomuntu siqu, futhi athembele kuye ngokwakhe esikhundleni sabanye.
3.  Iphupho lowesifazane ohlukanisile lokubona umakhalekhukhwini ephusheni lingase libe uphawu lokukhathazeka nokucindezeleka.
   Iphupho lingase libe yisikhumbuzo kuye ukuthi uhlushwa ukucindezeleka ekuphileni kwansuku zonke futhi udinga ukuthuthukisa indlela elawula ngayo ukucindezeleka.
4. Ifoni ephathekayo iphinde ibonise inqubekelaphambili nenkululeko: Iphupho lokubona umakhalekhukhwini ephusheni lowesifazane ohlukanisile kungase kube uphawu lwenqubekelaphambili nenkululeko.
   Kungase kubonise ukuthi ukhululiwe emikhawulweni yobuhlobo obudlule futhi uthembele kuye ukuthi enze izinqumo zakhe futhi athathe indlela entsha empilweni yakhe.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nefoni ephathekayo yabesifazane abangashadile

1.  Iphupho ngomakhalekhukhwini lingase libe isikhumbuzo kuwe ngokubaluleka kokuxhumana nokuxhumana ekuphileni kwakho kwansuku zonke.
   Ifoni ephathekayo ephusheni ingase ifanekisele amathuba oza kuwe wokuhlangana nabantu abasha futhi wandise inethiwekhi yakho yokuxhumana nabantu.
   Iphupho lingase libe isikhuthazo sokuthi uxhumane nabanye futhi usebenzise amakhono akho okuxhumana nabantu ekuphileni kwansuku zonke.
2.  Ifoni ephathekayo ephusheni ingafanekisela ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zakho ezingokomzwelo njengowesifazane ongashadile.
   Iphupho lingase libonise isifiso sakho sokuthola umlingani wokuphila noma isifiso sokuthola ukwesekwa nokunakwa kwabanye.
   Uma ube nephupho ngomakhalekhukhwini, kungase kube isikhumbuzo kuwe ukuthi kubalulekile ukuveza izidingo zakho ezingokomzwelo futhi ulwele ukulinganisela empilweni yakho yomuntu siqu.
3.  Iselula iyithuluzi elibalulekile empilweni yethu yokusebenza.
   Iphupho elimayelana nomakhalekhukhwini wowesifazane ongashadile lingase lifanekisele isifiso sakho sempumelelo yobungcweti nokuthola amathuba athembisayo emkhakheni wakho womsebenzi.
   Umakhalekhukhwini ephusheni ungafanekisela inethiwekhi yochwepheshe futhi uvule iminyango engase ibe khona yentuthuko nokukhula emsebenzini wakho.
4.  Ukungashadi kukhombisa ukuzimela kanye nenkululeko yomuntu wesifazane.
   Kowesifazane ongashadile, iphupho mayelana nefoni ephathekayo lingabonakalisa ukujabulela kwakho inkululeko yomuntu siqu kanye nezobuchwepheshe.
   Ungase uzizwe ukhululekile futhi uvikelekile empilweni yakho yamanje futhi ungadingi ukuncika kumlingani wakho wokuphila noma noma yibuphi ubudlelwano bendabuko.
5. Iphupho lowesifazane ongashadile lomakhalekhukhwini libonisa isifiso sakho sokuxhumana nomhlaba wangaphandle futhi ubambe iqhaza emicimbini nasemisebenzini yomphakathi.
   Ifoni ephathekayo ephusheni ingabonakalisa isifiso sakho sokufinyelela ukuxhumana nomphakathi futhi uhlanganyele emisebenzini yomphakathi nokuzijabulisa.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho lefoni ephukile

1.  Ukuphupha ngefoni ephukile kungabonisa ukuzizwa unganakwa noma ungazimisele ukuxhumana empilweni yakho yansuku zonke.
   Ungase ube nomuzwa wokuthi abantu abanandaba nemibono yakho futhi abaphenduli emizamweni yakho yokuxhumana nabo.
2.  Uma uhlangabezana nokungakwazi ukufinyelela abanye ephusheni, lokhu kungase kubonise imizwa yokuhlukaniswa noma ubuze empilweni yakho yomphakathi.
   Ungase udinge ukuxhumana nokusebenzelana nabanye ngokuphumelelayo.
3. Lo mbono usikisela ukuthi umlingisi uthembele kakhulu kubuchwepheshe, okumenza angabi namandla okuxhumana ngokweqiniso futhi ancike ebudlelwaneni bangempela phakathi kwabantu empilweni yansuku zonke.
4.  Uma unenkinga yokusebenzisa i-smartphone ephukile ephusheni, kungase kusho ukuthi kukhona ubunzima ekukhulumisaneni emhlabeni wangempela.
   Kungenzeka uhlangabezana nezinselele zokuqonda nokudlulisa imicabango nemizwa yakho ngendlela efanele kwabanye.
5.  Iphupho mayelana nefoni ephukile lingabonisa isifiso sakho sokubuyisela ukuxhumana, ukulungisa ubudlelwano obudala, noma ukulungisa iphutha ebudlelwaneni bakho bamanje.
   Kungase kube nesidingo sokulungisa izinkinga ebudlelwaneni nokuthola izindlela ezintsha zokuxhumana.

Uphawu lweselula ephusheni lendoda

1.  Ukubona isithonjana sefoni ephathekayo ephusheni kungase kufanekisele isifiso esinamandla somuntu sokuxhumana nabanye nokwakha ubuhlobo obusha.
   Iphupho lingase futhi libonise isidingo somuntu sokuxhumana nabantu abadala abalahlekile empilweni yakhe.
2.  Ukubona uphawu lwefoni ephathekayo ephusheni kungase kubonise ukuthambekela komuntu ekuqhubekeleni phambili kwezobuchwepheshe kanye nokusha.
   Kungase kube nesifiso sokuba ahlole izinto ezintsha nezintsha ekuphileni.
3.  Iphupho ngesithonjana seselula lingabonisa ukuthi indoda imatasa ngomsebenzi wayo noma ukuthi kufanele inake kakhulu umsebenzi wayo.
   Iphupho lingabonisa namathuba amasha ebhizinisini angase amlindele.
4.  Iphupho ngophawu lwefoni ephathekayo ngezinye izikhathi lingase libonise umuzwa wendoda wokuhlukaniswa noma ukungakwazi ukuxhumana nabanye.
   Iphupho lingase libonise ukuzihlukanisa komuntu nomphakathi noma umuzwa wakhe wokuhlukaniswa nabantu ababalulekile ekuphileni kwakhe.
5.  Iphupho elimayelana nesithonjana seselula lingabonisa futhi ukulangazelela nokulangazelela umuntu othile noma isenzakalo esibalulekile esingase senzeke esikhathini esizayo.