Ukuphalaza ephusheni okwengane, Ukuphalaza kungenye yezinqubo ezenziwa ngumzimba womuntu lapho kulimala uhlelo lokugaya ukudla, ikakhulukazi ezinsaneni ngesikhathi sokujwayela ukudla neziphuzo, nalapho zibona. Ingane iphalaza ephusheni Kunezincazelo eziningi nezincazelo zecala ngalinye lapho lolu phawu lwenzeka khona, futhi esihlokweni esilandelayo sizokwethula inani elikhulu lamacala ahlobene nalolu phawu, kanye namazwi nemibono yezazi ezinkulu nabahumushi, njengo-Imam wesazi. Ibn Sirin.
Ukuphalaza ephusheni kwengane
Ukuhlanza ephusheni kwengane kungenye yemibono ephethe izinkomba eziningi nezimpawu ezingabonwa ngalezi zimo ezilandelayo:
- Ukuhlanza ephusheni kwengane kubonisa ubunzima nezinkinga lowo ophuphayo azobhekana nazo esikhathini esizayo.
- Ukubona ukuhlanza ephusheni kumntwana kubonisa izono nezono ezenziwa umphuphi kanye nesidingo sakhe sokuphenduka okuqotho nokubuyela kuNkulunkulu.
- Uma umphuphi ebona ephusheni ukuthi ingane yakhe encane iyahlanza, khona-ke lokhu kufanekisela ukuthi uthintwa umona neso elibi, futhi kufanele amgome ngeKur’an eNgcwele futhi asondele kuNkulunkulu.
- Umphuphi obona ephusheni ukuthi ingane encane ihlanza izingubo zayo futhi zingcolile kuyinkomba yokuthi uzobhekana nenkinga yezempilo ezodinga ukuthi alale.
Ukuphalaza ephusheni lengane ngu-Ibn Sirin
Isazi u-Ibn Sirin sike sabhekana nencazelo yokubona ingane iphalaza ephusheni, futhi lokhu okulandelayo ezinye zezincazelo esazithola:
- Ukuhlanza ephusheni kwengane ngokusho kuka-Ibn Sirin kubonisa izinkinga nokungavumelani okuzokwenzeka empilweni yomphuphi futhi kuyiphazamise.
- Uma umphuphi ebona ephusheni umntwana ehlanza izingubo zakhe, khona-ke lokhu kufanekisela okuhle okukhulu kanye nemali eningi azoyithola emsebenzini omuhle noma ifa elisemthethweni.
- Ukubona ingane ihlanza ephusheni ngephunga elibi kubonisa izindaba ezimbi nezidabukisayo ukuthi lowo ophuphayo uzothola.
Ukuphalaza ephusheni kwengane eyodwa
Ukuchazwa kokubona ukuhlanza ephusheni kwengane kuyahlukahluka kuye ngesimo senhlalo lapho umphuphi ekhona, futhi kulokhu okulandelayo ukuchazwa kombono wentombazane eyodwa yalolu phawu:
- Uma intombazane engashadile ibona ephusheni ukuthi ingane egulayo iyahlanza, lokhu kufanekisela ukululama kwakhe kanye nempilo enhle.
- Ukubona ingane ihlanza ephusheni lowesifazane oyedwa kubonisa ukunyamalala kokukhathazeka nosizi lwakhe, nokujabulela ukuphila okujabulisayo nokuzinzile.
- Intombazane engashadile ebona ephusheni ukuthi ingane encane iyahlanza ibonisa ukuthi izofeza izifiso zayo nemigomo eyayiyifuna kakhulu.
- Ukuhlanza kwengane ephusheni kwabesifazane abangashadile Ezimpahleni zakhe kubonisa ukuthi uzoshada maduze nokuthi uNkulunkulu uzomnika inzalo enhle.
Ukubona umntwana ehlanza ubisi ephusheni kwabesifazane abangashadile
- Uma intombazane engashadile ibona ephusheni usana oluhlanza ubisi, khona-ke lokhu kufanekisela ukuthi abanye abantu balinde ukuba bamlimaze.
- Ukubona usana oluhlanza ubisi ephusheni lowesifazane ongashadile kubonisa ukushesha kwakhe ezinqumweni zakhe, okubangela ukuba angene ezinkingeni eziningi.
Ukubona ingane yentombazane ihlanza ephusheni yabesifazane abangashadile
- Ukubona ingane yentombazane ihlanza ephusheni kwabesifazane abangashadile kubonisa ukuthi kukhona ukungezwani nezingxabano endaweni ezungezile yomndeni wakhe nokuthi usesimweni sokucindezeleka.
- Umbono wentombazane engashadile wengane yentombazane ihlanza ephusheni ubonisa ukuthi kuyoba nzima ngayo ukufinyelela imigomo yayo naphezu kwemizamo yayo ejulile.
Ukuphalaza ephusheni kwengane yowesifazane oshadile
- Owesifazane oshadile obona ingane ephusheni uyinkomba yenkinga enkulu yezezimali azobhekana nayo kanye nokuqoqwa kwezikweletu.
- Uma owesifazane oshadile ebona ingane ihlanza ephusheni, lokhu kufanekisela ukungazinzi kwempilo yakhe yomshado kanye nokungavumelani okuthile phakathi kwakhe nomyeni wakhe.
- Ukubona ingane ihlanza ephusheni kowesifazane oshadile kubonisa ukuthi maduze uzokhulelwa futhi ubhekene nesikhathi esinzima nayo.
Ukubona usana luhlanza ephusheni lowesifazane oshadile
- Owesifazane oshadile obona umntwana osanda kuzalwa ehlanza ephusheni kuyinkomba yokwesaba kwakhe izingane zakhe kanye nokukhathazeka kwakhe njalo ngabo.
- Ukubona usana luhlanza ephusheni lowesifazane oshadile kubonisa izimo ezinzima ukuthi isikhathi esizayo sizodlula.
- Ukuhlanza usana ephusheni owesifazane oshadile kuwuphawu lokucindezeleka.
Ukuphalaza ephusheni kwengane ekhulelwe
- Uma owesifazane okhulelwe ebona ephusheni ukuthi umntwana uyahlanza, khona-ke lokhu kufanekisela ukukhathazeka kwakhe ngokweqile mayelana nenqubo yokuzalwa, ebonakala emaphusheni akhe, futhi kufanele ehlise umoya futhi athandaze kuNkulunkulu ukuba abakhulule.
- Ukuphalaza kwengane ephusheni kowesifazane okhulelwe Kubonisa izinkinga zempilo azobhekana nazo esikhathini esizayo, ezingase zibeke engozini impilo yombungu wakhe.
- Owesifazane okhulelwe obona usana olusanda kuzalwa luhlanza ephusheni luyinkomba yezinkinga nobunzima azobhekana nabo futhi buthinte impilo yakhe.
Ukuphalaza ephusheni ngengane ehlukanisile
- Owesifazane ohlukanisile obona ingane ihlanza ephusheni kuyinkomba yezinkinga nokungezwani azobhekana nakho ngemuva kwesehlukaniso.
- Uma owesifazane ongashadile ebona ingane ihlanza ephusheni, lokhu kubonisa umuzwa wakhe wokungabi nabulungisa kumyeni wakhe wangaphambili nokuthi unesibopho sokuhlukana.
- Ukuhlanza ephusheni lengane yowesifazane ohlukanisile kubonisa ubunzima nezithiyo azohlangabezana nazo endleleni yokuphumelela kwakhe.
Ukuphalaza ephusheni kwengane kumuntu
Ingabe incazelo yokubona ukuhlanza ephusheni ihlukile kumntwana ephusheni lomuntu kunowesifazane? Ithini incazelo yokubona lolu phawu? Ukuze uphendule le mibuzo, qhubeka ufunda:
- Uma umuntu ebona ephusheni ingane encane ihlanza, khona-ke lokhu kufanekisela izinhlekelele ezimzungezile futhi akazi ukuthi angaphuma kanjani kuzo.
- Ukubona ukuhlanza ephusheni kwengane kubonisa kumuntu ukuthi uzobhekana nokulahlekelwa okukhulu kwezezimali futhi aqongelele izikweletu.
- Umuntu obona ephusheni ukuthi ingane encane iyahlanza ikhombisa ukuthi izungezwe abantu abafukamele inzondo nenzondo ngaye bese beyibekela izicupho namaqhinga.
Ukuphalaza ingane yami ephusheni
- Umphuphi obona ephusheni ukuthi ingane yakhe ihlanza igazi kuyinkomba yemali eningi kanye nendlela yokuziphilisa esemthethweni azoyithola emthonjeni osemthethweni.
- Uma umama ebona ephusheni ingane yakhe ihlanza ephusheni, lokhu kufanekisela ukushesha kwakhe ukwenza izinqumo ezingalungile ezizomlethela okubi nokuzisola, futhi kufanele acabange futhi acabange.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho uhlanza ingane
- Ukuhlanza usana ephusheni kubonisa ukuqubuka kwezingxabano nezingxabano phakathi komphuphi nabantu abasondelene naye.
- Uma umphuphi ebona ephusheni umntwana ehlanza, khona-ke lokhu kufanekisela izenzo ezingalungile nezono azenzayo, ezidinga inhlawulo ukuze uNkulunkulu amthethelele.
- Ukubona usana luthulula ephusheni kubonisa ukukhathazeka nosizi oluzolawula impilo yomphuphi, futhi kufanele abe nesineke futhi abalwe.
Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nobisi oluphuma emlonyeni wengane
- Umphuphi obona ephusheni ubisi oluphuma emlonyeni wengane luyinkomba yendlela yokuphila enkulu kanye nemali eningi azoyivuna ekubambisaneni kwebhizinisi okuphumelelayo.
- Ukubona ubisi luphuma emlonyeni wengane ephusheni kubonisa ukubuya kokuzinza empilweni yomphuphi ngemva kobunzima obude nokucindezeleka.
Ukuphalaza izinsuku ephusheni
Izinsuku zingenye yezimpawu ezichaza kahle amaphupho amaningi, ngakho-ke iyini incazelo yokuhlanza ephusheni? Ingabe izobuyisela okuhle noma okubi kumphuphi? Ukuze uphendule le mibuzo, qhubeka ufunda:
- Uma umphuphi ebona ephusheni ukuthi uhlanza izinsuku, khona-ke lokhu kufanekisela ububi nokuzwa izindaba ezimbi ezizophazamisa ukuphila kwakhe.
- Izinsuku zokuhlanza ephusheni zibonisa ukufa kwesiguli kanye nokukhathazeka nosizi umphuphi azodlula kukho.
- Ukubona izinsuku zingenalutho ephusheni kubonisa izinkinga nobunzima obuzophazamisa impilo yomphuphi.
Ukuphalaza into emnyama ephusheni
- Umphuphi obona ephusheni ehlanza into emnyama kuyinkomba yokuthi uzokhipha iso elibi, umona, nobuthakathi abephethwe ngabo.
- Ukubona ukuhlanza kwento emnyama ephusheni kubonisa ukuthi umphuphi uzosusa izinkinga nobunzima aye wabhekana nabo esikhathini esidlule.
Ukuphalaza incazelo yephupho
Kunezimo eziningi lapho ukuhlanza kungenzeka khona ephusheni, futhi kulokhu okulandelayo sizokwethula ezinye zazo futhi sicacise udaba:
- Intombazane engashadile ebona ephusheni ukuthi iyahlanza iyinkomba yezinguquko ezinhle ezizokwenzeka ekuphileni kwayo.
- Kubonisa umbono wephupho Ukuphalaza ephusheni kowesifazane oshadile Ujabulela ukuphila okuzinzile nokushabalala kokwehluka nezinkinga ezenzeka phakathi kwakhe nomyeni wakhe.
- Uma owesifazane okhulelwe ebona ephusheni ukuthi wayehlanza, khona-ke lokhu kufanekisela ukuqeda izinhlungu nezinkinga adlula kuzo phakathi nokukhulelwa.
Ukudla amahlanzo ephusheni
Olunye lwezimpawu ezixakile neziphazamisayo ukudla amahlanzo ephusheni, ngakho-ke sizokucacisa ngalezi zimo ezilandelayo:
- Uma umphuphi ebona ephusheni ukuthi udla ukuhlanza, lokhu kufanekisela ukuthi unezici ezithile, ezifana nokuqina, okuxosha wonke umuntu kuye, futhi kufanele aziguqule futhi azilahle.
- Ukubona ukuhlanza ephusheni kubonisa ukuthi umphuphi uzothola inzuzo enkulu yezezimali emthonjeni ongekho emthethweni, futhi kufanele abuyele kuNkulunkulu.
- Ukudla ukuhlanza ephusheni kubonisa ukuphila okungajabulisi ukuthi umphuphi uhlala khona, okumbeka esimweni esibi sengqondo.
