Ngiphuphe ngilala nowesifazane odumile ngokusho kuka-Ibn Sirin

Ngiphuphe ngenza ucansi nosaziwayo

1. Iphupho mayelana "namadoda adumile" lingase lifanekisela isifiso sakho sokuxhumana nomuntu odumile noma ukukhangwa othile owaziwa ngokukhanga kwakhe.
   Leli phupho lingase libonise isifiso sakho sodumo nokuhlonishwa, futhi kungase kube inkomba yokuthi unenhlonipho noma ukwazisa ngomuntu odumile empilweni yakho.
2. Iphupho "ngamanyuvesi adumile" lingaba inkomba yesifiso sakho sokwenza kahle futhi uzuze impumelelo emkhakheni wakho.
   Mhlawumbe weqe imingcele yakho futhi wazuza emkhakheni wakho womsebenzi noma womuntu siqu, futhi lo mbono uveza umuzwa wakho wamandla nokuzethemba kuwena.
3. Iphupho mayelana "nama-mosque adumile" lingabonakalisa isidingo sakho sokuqaphela futhi ungazikhukhumezi ngempumelelo kanye nesimo senhlalo.
   Leli phupho lingase libe isikhumbuzo kuwe ukuthi udumo nengcebo akuyona yonke into, nokuthi kufanele ugcine ukuthobeka futhi ugxile ezimisweni zangempela ekuphileni.
4. Iphupho mayelana "nama-mosque adumile" lingase libe ukubonakaliswa kwesifiso sakho sokuthola uguquko olubalulekile empilweni yakho.
   Ungase ulungele ushintsho noma ufune ukuthuthukiswa komuntu siqu noma kochwepheshe.
   Leli phupho lingase futhi libonise isifiso sakho sokuzethemba ngokwengeziwe futhi udlulele ezifisweni zakho ezintsha.

Ngiphuphe ngenza ucansi nentombazane enhle

1. Iphupho lingase lifanekisela inkanuko nesifiso sobulili esivela ngaphakathi kumuntu.
   Iphupho lingase libe ukubonakaliswa kwesifiso somzimba sokuba nobuhlobo obuseduze nomuntu omuhle.
2. Iphupho lingase libonise isifiso somuntu sokusondela ebuhleni, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi lobo ubuhle obungokomzimba noma ukukhanga kobuhle obujwayelekile.
   Iphupho lingaba ukubonakaliswa kwesifiso sokuthola ubuhle ngendlela egcwele intshiseko nesasasa.
3. Iphupho lingase lifanekisela isifiso somuntu sokuxhumana ngokomzwelo nokuxhumana nomunye umuntu.
   Leli phupho lingase libe ukubonakaliswa kwesifiso sokufuna umlingani wempilo ohlangabezana nezindinganiso zobuhle nezocansi.
4. Iphupho lingase futhi lifanekisela isidingo sokulinganisa ubufazi kanye nobudoda ebuntwini.
   Iphupho lingase libe ukubonakaliswa kwesidingo sokuhlola izici ezihlukene zomuntu siqu nokulinganisa inkanuko, imizwa ehlukene kanye nezifiso.
5. Ukuphupha ngokuhlangana nentombazane enhle kungase kubonise ukungena esikhathini esisha sokukhula komuntu siqu nokuthuthuka.
   Iphupho lingase libe ukubonakaliswa kwezifiso ezintsha nemigomo umuntu afuna ukuyifinyelela ekuphileni kwakhe.

Ngiphuphe ngilala nowesifazane uyamazi

1. Iphupho lakho lokuthi ulala nowesifazane omaziyo lingase libe ukubonakaliswa kwesifiso sakho sobulili esingokwemvelo nesinamandla.
   Kwesinye isikhathi, kuyenzeka ukuthi lezi zifiso zifakwe emaphusheni ethu.
   Iphupho lingase libe ukubonakaliswa kokukhangwa ozizwayo ngalo wesifazane noma owesifazane ongacabangi ammelela ekhanda lakho.
2. Iphupho lingase libonise izakhi ezithile ebuhlotsheni bakho bamanje nowesifazane ocabanga ukuthi waziwa ephusheni.
   Imininingwane nencazelo yephupho ingase ikutshele mayelana nezici ezinhle noma ezimbi kulobu budlelwano.
   Lokhu kungase kube isexwayiso sokucabangela ngokucophelela ubudlelwano futhi buhlole kahle.
3. Amanye amaphupho angase abe ukubonakaliswa kwesifiso sakho sokuxhumana nokuhlangana nabantu abasha.
   Owesifazane olala naye ephusheni angase amele leso sifiso sokuxhumana nokuthola abantu abasha empilweni yakho.
   Ungase ube nesifiso sokwandisa ulwazi lwakho futhi uzame izinto ezintsha.
4. Ukuphupha wenza ucansi kungase kube wuphawu lokufezeka kwezifiso nezifiso zakho empilweni.
   Owesifazane omaziyo ephusheni angase aveze amaphupho akho, izifiso nezifiso ofuna ukuzifeza.
   Iphupho lingase libe isimemo sokusebenza ekufezeni izinhloso zakho futhi uphokophelele ekuzuzeni impumelelo nokwaneliseka komuntu siqu.

Ngiphuphe ngilala nendodakazi yami

1. Leli phupho lingabonisa uthando oluqinile nokunakekelwa okuvela phakathi kukababa nendodakazi yakhe.
   Umbono wokuhlangana nengane yakho ubonisa isifiso sakho esijulile sokwakha ukuxhumana okuqinile nokusondelana naye.
2. Leli phupho lingase libe ukubonakaliswa kwesifiso sakho sokuvikela nokunakekela ngokugcwele ingane yakho yentombazane.
   Lokhu kungase kubonise isidingo sakho sokuzizwa uphephile, uvikelekile, futhi unethezekile ngokuhlobene nengane yakho yentombazane.
3. Leli phupho lingase libe inkomba yokuxhumana okujulile okungokomzwelo okuzwa ngengane yakho yentombazane.
   Ungase ufune ukuchitha isikhathi esengeziwe naye futhi uqinise isibopho sakho esingokomzwelo.
4.  Ukuzibona ulala nendodakazi yakho ephusheni kungase kubonise umthwalo wakho wemfanelo njengobaba kanye nomuzwa wakho wokwethembeka kuye.
   Kuyisikhumbuzo kuwe ukuthi uyenza kahle indima yakho yobuzali futhi ulinganisela kahle ekuphileni komkhaya wakho.
5. Leli phupho libonisa ikhono lakho lokujabulela izikhathi ezijabulisayo futhi ube ngokugcwele nangokujulile nabathandekayo bakho.
   Kuyisikhumbuzo kuwe ukuthi ufanelwe ukuzwa injabulo nenjabulo empilweni yomndeni wakho.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nendoda edumile eya ocansini nowesifazane ongashadile

1. Iphupho lakho lendoda edumile ilala nawe lingakhombisa izifiso zakho ukuthi zibonwe ngumuntu odumile noma ophumelele.
   Lokhu kuhumusha kungase kube ukubonakaliswa kwesifiso sakho sodumo noma ukuhlonishwa kwamakhono akho kanye nezimpumelelo zakho.
   Iphupho lingase libe yisikhumbuzo kuwe sokuthi unamandla okufeza amaphupho akho ngaphandle kokubheka isimo sakho samanje.
2. Ukuphupha indoda edumile yenza ucansi nawe kuyinkomba yokuzethemba nethemba.
   Leli phupho lingase likukhumbuze ukuthi ungumuntu omuhle futhi okhangayo, nokuthi unamandla nekhono lokuheha nokukhangwa.
   Kuyisikhumbuzo esihle samandla akho angaphakathi kanye ne-charisma yomuntu siqu.
3. Ukuphupha indoda edumile yenza ucansi nawe kungase kube yinkomba yokuthi ubhekene nenkathi entsha yezifiso nemigomo empilweni yakho.
   Mhlawumbe usukulungele ukuhlola izindlela ezintsha zokufinyelela impumelelo yakho yomuntu siqu neyomsebenzi.
   Indoda edumile ingase ibe uphawu lokugcwaliseka nokuchuma empilweni yakho.
4. Ukuphupha indoda edumile ilala nawe kungase kubonise isifiso sodumo nokuduma.
   Ungase utuse futhi uthonywe kakhulu abantu abadumile.
   Leli phupho ngokuvamile libonisa isifiso sakho sokuduma noma ukumangala abantu abadumile.
5. Ukuphupha indoda edumile yenza ucansi nawe kungase kufanekisele ukuzazi nokugqugquzela.
   Mhlawumbe lesi yisikhumbuzo sokuthi kufanele uzinakekele futhi unakekele izidingo zakho zomuntu siqu.
   Kuyisikhumbuzo sokubaluleka kokuzinakekela kanye nokuzuza injabulo yomuntu siqu ngaphambi kokucabanga ngobudlelwano bothando.

Ngiphuphe ngilala nowesifazane engimazi ngisashadile

1. Iphupho lomuntu oshadile ukuhlangana nowesifazane aziyo kungase kufanekisela umuzwa wakhe womhawu noma ukuntula ukuzethemba ebuhlotsheni bakhe bomshado wamanje.
   Lokhu kungase kubonise ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa uzakwethu noma ukungabaza ukwethembeka kozakwethu.
2. Iphupho lomuntu oshadile ehlangana nowesifazane amaziyo lingase libe ukubonakaliswa kwezifiso ezingenambala noma izenzo ezilindelekile ezenzeka engqondweni.
   Umuntu angase azizwe enesithukuthezi noma aphuthelwe okuthile empilweni yakhe yamanje.
3. Enye incazelo engenzeka yaleli phupho ukuthi lifanekisela isidingo sokuhlanganiswa komphakathi nokuzwana nabanye abantu.
   Umuntu angase azizwe edinga ukuxhumana okujulile nokuxhumana nabantu.

Ngiphuphe ngilala nowesifazane oshadile

1.  Ukuphupha ulala nowesifazane oshadile kungase kube ukubonakaliswa kwezifiso zakho zobulili zemvelo.
   Okuhlangenwe nakho kwephupho kungase kube ukwaneliseka kwesikhashana kwalezi zifiso ezicindezelwe.
2. Ukuzihlola: Iphupho lingase lihlobane nokuzihlola kanye nesifiso sakho sokuthola izici ezintsha zobuntu bakho.
   Iphupho lingase lifanekisela isifiso sakho sokuthola izigigaba ezintsha noma ukuxhumana nabanye abantu abangaphandle kwemingcele yempilo yakho yansuku zonke.
3. Iphupho lingase libonise ukukhathazeka kwakho noma isifiso sokubalekela imithwalo yemfanelo kanye nezingcindezi ngokweqile empilweni yakho yomuntu siqu noma yomsebenzi.
   Mhlawumbe udinga ukuphumula futhi unciphise ingcindezi ngezindlela ezinempilo, ezinhle.
4. Ukuphupha ulala nowesifazane oshadile kungase kube uphawu lokushuba kwesimo ebudlelwaneni bakho bezothando.
   Kungase kudingeke uhlole imizwa yakho futhi ubhekane nobunzima obhekene nabo ebudlelwaneni.
5. Iphupho lingase libonise ukuthi unomuzwa womona ngomuntu othize empilweni yakho.
   Lo muntu angaba usongo kuwe noma angaba nemizwa exubile yothando nokuntula.

Ngiphuphe isithandwa sami silele nami

1. Ukuphupha ubona isithandwa sakho silele eduze kwakho kungase kubonise ukuthi uzizwa uphephile futhi ukhululekile ngokomzwelo uma unaso.
   Mhlawumbe lo mbono ubonisa isifiso sakho sokuzinza futhi wakhe ubuhlobo obuzinzile nobuqinile naye.
2.  Ukuphupha isithandwa sakho silele eduze kwakho kungase kubonise ukukhathazeka okuthile noma umona.
   Ungase ugcwele ukungabaza kanye nokungezwani mayelana nobudlelwano bokwethembana phakathi kwakho, futhi lo mbono uzwakalisa isifiso sakho sokuqinisekisa ukuphepha nokwethembeka kwesithandwa sakho.
3. Ukuphupha ubona isithandwa sakho silele eduze kwakho kungase kuhlobane nezinto ozibheka njengezibalulekile othandweni lwakho.
   Leli phupho lingase libe isikhumbuzo kuwe sesidingo sokwazisa isikhathi sekhwalithi nokwabelana nesithandwa sakho, nokunaka nokunakekela ubuhlobo bakho nomlingani wakho.
4. Ukuphupha ubona isithandwa sakho silele eduze kwakho kungase kubonise ukulangazelela kwakho nokulangazelela ukuba naye eduze kwakho.
   Ungase ube nomuzwa wokuthi udinga isikhathi esiningi nokuhlanganyela naye, futhi leli phupho libonisa isifiso sakho sokuba naye eceleni kwakho futhi nichithe isikhathi esiningi ndawonye.
5. Akuvamile ukuthi iphupho lokubona isithandwa sakho silele eduze kwakho lihlotshaniswe nezifiso zocansi kanye namaphupho avusa inkanuko.
   Uma lo mbono uhlobene nemizwa yobulili nesilingo, khona-ke leli phupho lingase libe nezincazelo zemvelo yobulili.

Ngiphuphe ngilala nowesifazane engingamazi futhi ngishadile

1.  Iphupho lingase libonise isifiso sakho sokuzama nokuhlola izinto ezintsha empilweni yakho yocansi.
   Ungase uzizwe unesimiso esithile ebudlelwaneni bakho bomshado futhi ufuna okuthile okuhle.
2. Iphupho lingase libe ngumkhiqizo wokufunda noma ukubona okuthile okuhlobene nocansi ngaphambi kokulala.
   Ingqondo yethu enganakile imane iyinqolobane yolwazi nemibono esihlangabezana nayo ekuphileni kwethu kwansuku zonke.
3.  Iphupho lingase libe ukubonakaliswa kokukhungatheka kwakho noma isifiso esingagcwaliseki empilweni yakho yobulili.
   Kungabonisa ukuthi kukhona indawo yokuthuthukisa ekukhulumisaneni nasekuxhumaneni nomlingani wakho.
4. Iphupho lingase libonise ukwesaba ukukhashelwa ngokomzwelo noma ukungabaza kwakho ngomlingani wakho.
   Kungase kube nezici empeleni ezikwenza uzizwe ukhathazekile ngobuhlobo, futhi leli phupho lingase libe ukubonakaliswa kwale micabango.
5.  Iphupho lingase libonise isifiso sakho sokufinyelela ibhalansi empilweni yakho yocansi nengokomzwelo.
   Ungase ufune ukuthola ukulinganisela phakathi kwezifiso zomuntu siqu nezibopho zomshado.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokushada nomdlali odumile

1. Iphupho lokushada nomdlali odumile lingase libe ukubonakaliswa okungaqondile kwesifiso sakho sempumelelo, udumo, nengcebo.
   Umdlali odumile ephusheni angase afanekisele i-stereotype yomuntu ophumelelayo nowaziwayo emphakathini.
   Mhlawumbe ufuna abantu bazi ngalokho okufezile futhi bathole ukuqashelwa okwengeziwe nokwazisa ekuphileni kwakho kwangempela.
2. Mhlawumbe ukugcwaliseka kwaleli phupho kubonisa ukuzethemba nokuzethemba.
   Umshado udinga ukuzethemba emandleni okufeza iphupho nokufaneleka kwalo.
   Ngakho-ke, ukuphupha ushada nomdlali odumile kungasho ukuthi ukholelwa ukuthi ufanelwe ukuphila impilo ehloniphekile futhi uthandwe futhi ubongwe.
3. Ukuphupha ushada nomdlali odumile kungase kubonise isifiso sokuphila okugcwele injabulo nokuzijabulisa.
   Umdlali odumile ephusheni angabonwa njengomuntu ophila impilo eyingqayizivele futhi ojabulela amathuba amaningi kanye nolwazi.
   Mhlawumbe ubheke ngabomvu ekuhlangenwe nakho okusha empilweni yakho yangempela nokuthola izindawo ezintsha nabantu.
4. Ukuphupha ushada nomdlali odumile kungase kube isikhumbuzo semigomo nezifiso zakho empilweni.
   Kungenzeka ukuthi ulwela ukuzuza okuthile okukhethekile futhi uzuze impumelelo enkulu.
   Ukubona umdlali odumile ephusheni kungase kukukhumbuze ukuthi kufanele usebenze kanzima ukuze ufeze amaphupho nezinhloso zakho.