Funda mayelana nencazelo yokubona ikhekhe ephusheni kumuntu ofile ngokusho kuka-Ibn Sirin

Ikhekhe ephusheni kwabafileyo

1. Ikhekhe ephusheni elivela kumuntu ofile lingase lifanekisela i-nostalgia nezinkumbulo ezinhle nomuntu oshonile. Lokhu kungase kube inkomba yokuthi umuntu ophuphayo ngaye umkhumbula kakhulu futhi ufuna ukumkhumbula.
2. Ikhekhe ephusheni elivela kumuntu ofile lingase libe uphawu lwemizwa ejulile yomuntu oshonile kanye nesifiso sakhe sokuxhuma nokuphila. Lokhu kungaba isikhumbuzo kumuntu ngokubaluleka kothando nokunakekelwa empilweni yakhe.
3. Kungenzeka ukuthi ukuphupha ikhekhe kumuntu ofile ephusheni kuwubufakazi benjabulo nokugubha ukufeza imigomo ebalulekile noma izenzakalo empilweni yomuntu ophuphayo ngakho. Lokhu kungaba isikhuthazo esivela ezweni elingokomoya ukuze ujabulele izikhathi ezijabulisayo futhi wabelane ngazo nabanye.
4. Ukuphupha ngekhekhe kumuntu ofile kungase kube inkomba yesifiso somuntu sokubuyisana nokuthethelela. Kungase kusho ukuthi lowo muntu uyazisola ngezinye zezinto okungenzeka ukuthi zenzeke phakathi nokuphila komuntu oshonile, futhi ufuna ukulungisa amaphutha futhi azuze ukuthula kwangaphakathi.
5. Kungenzeka ukuthi ukuphupha ikhekhe lomuntu ofile ephusheni kuyinkomba yokuthi umuntu oliphuphayo udinga usizo nokwesekwa empilweni yakhe. Ikhekhe kuleli phupho lingase lifanekisela uthando nokunakekelwa umuntu angakuthola kubantu abaphilayo abaseduze naye.

Ukubona ikhekhe ephusheni kwabashadile

1. Uma owesifazane oshadile ebona ikhekhe ephusheni, lokhu kungase kubonise injabulo nomdlandla empilweni yakhe yomshado. Leli phupho lingase libe inkomba yokuthi uzizwa enelisekile futhi ufisa ukuzuza injabulo nenjabulo ebuhlotsheni bakhe bomshado.
2. Ukuba khona kwekhekhe ephusheni kungase kubonise ukulindela kwesenzakalo esijabulisayo, njengokugubha usuku lwakhe lomshado noma isikhumbuzo esikhethekile. Leli phupho lingase libe yinkomba yokuthi ufuna ukugubha futhi enze isikhathi sokugubha isithandwa sakhe futhi aqinise ubuhlobo babo.
3. Ikhekhe liwuphawu lobumfihlo, induduzo kanye nokuhlala okuhle. Uma owesifazane oshadile ephupha ebona ikhekhe ephusheni, lokhu kungase kusho ukuthi uhlala endaweni yomshado ephephile nejabulisayo.
4. Ukubona ikhekhe ephusheni kungase kube inkomba yezifiso ezintsha kanye nempumelelo yesikhathi esizayo owesifazane oshadile ofuna ukuyifeza. Lokhu kungase kusho ukuthi ufuna imigomo emisha empilweni yakhe yomuntu siqu noma yobungcweti futhi ufisa ukuyifinyelela.

Ebona umufi esabalalisa amaswidi

1. Ukuhunyushwa kokubona umuntu ofile ehambisa uswidi kungase kubonise ukuthi kukhona ukuxhumana okuqinile namalungu omndeni noma abangani abangasekho, nokuthi umphefumulo oshonile ufuna ukwabelana nawe ngenjabulo nenjabulo.
2. Ukubona umuntu ofile esakaza uswidi kungase kubonise ukuthi umphefumulo uzizwa ujabule futhi uqinisekisiwe, futhi uzama ukuveza kuwe ukuthi usesimweni esihle futhi uhlanganyela injabulo yakho.
3.  Ukubona umuntu ofile esakaza amaswidi kungase kubonise ukubonga kwemiphefumulo engasekho ngezenzo ezinhle okungenzeka ukuthi izenzile ekuphileni, nokuthi iyazazisa futhi ijabulele lezo zenzo ezifaka isandla ekukhonzeni abanye nasekupheni.
4. Ukubona umuntu ofile ehambisa uswidi kungaba yinkomba yokuthi umphefumulo ongasekho ufuna ukugubha ukuphulukiswa noma intethelelo, futhi unethemba lokuthi unethuba lokuzuza ukuthula kwangaphakathi nokuphenduka.
5.  Ukubona umufi esabalalisa uswidi kungase kuzwakalise isifiso somphefumulo ongasekho ukuletha umlayezo obalulekile kuwe. Lo mlayezo kungenzeka umayelana nendaba ethile okudingeka uyinake noma isinqumo okufanele usithathe.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nomufi enikeza uswidi kowesifazane oshadile

1. Iphupho mayelana nomuntu oshonile onikeza uswidi kowesifazane oshadile lingase libe uphawu lwenjabulo nenjabulo empilweni yakho yomshado. Leli phupho lingase libonise ubuhlobo obuqinile nobujabulisayo phakathi kwakho nomlingani wakho wokuphila, kanye nesifiso somuntu ofile sokukuhalalisela futhi sikunikeze umbono wenjabulo nethemba ngekusasa.
2. Iphupho mayelana nomuntu oshonile onikeza amaswidi kuwesifazane oshadile kungase kube umlayezo ovela kwelinye izwe mayelana nesenzakalo esijabulisayo, njengosuku lwakho lomshado, usuku lokuzalwa, noma ukuzalwa kwengane yakho. Lokhu kungase kube isikhumbuzo sezikhathi ezimnandi ozichithe nomufi kanye nesifiso sakhe sokuhlanganyela nawe le njabulo empilweni yakho yamanje.
3.  Abafileyo ngokuvamile bawuphawu lwenduduzo nokuthula ekuphileni kwangemva kokufa. Iphupho ngomuntu ofile onikeza uswidi kowesifazane oshadile lingase libonise amandla okholo lomuntu ofile kanye nemithandazo yakhe yenjabulo yakho, induduzo, nokuphila okunokuthula. Leli phupho lingase libe isikhumbuzo kuwe sokubaluleka kokuthula kwangaphakathi nokujabulela izikhathi ezijabulisayo ekuphileni.
4. Uma uqaphela ukuthi iphupho lomuntu ofile enikeza amaswidi owesifazane oshadile kwenzeka ngesikhathi esithile sonyaka, lokhu kungase kube inkomba yokugubha usuku olubalulekile. Le nkumbulo ingase ihlobane nelungu lomndeni elishonile, futhi umufi wabelana nawe ngesenzakalo esikhethekile futhi ufuna ukwabelana nawe ngenjabulo nentokozo.
5. Iphupho mayelana nomuntu oshonile onikeza amaswidi kuwesifazane oshadile kungase kube isimemo esivela kumuntu oshonile ukuze axhumane nesikhathi esidlule futhi akukhumbuze izinkumbulo ezijabulisayo. Mhlawumbe kukhona ibhizinisi elingaqediwe phakathi kwakho nomuntu ofile, futhi leli phupho likukhuthaza ukuba ukhumbule lezi zinkumbulo futhi uhlanganyele kuzo.

Ukuhunyushwa kokwenza ikhekhe ephusheni Kwabashadile

1. Uma ubona ikhekhe ephusheni, kungase kufanekisela injabulo nenjabulo empilweni yakho yomshado. Lo mbono ungase ube isikhumbuzo kuwe sokubaluleka kokugubha izikhathi zenjabulo nokwabelana ngazo nozakwenu wempilo.
2.  Uma ubona ikhekhe ephusheni, kungase kube isikhumbuzo sokubaluleka kokugubha izikhathi ezikhethekile empilweni yakho yomshado, njengokugubha usuku lwakho lomshado noma uSuku Luka-Valentine. Jabulela izikhathi ezikhethekile futhi ubunga uthando nokuxhumana ngendlela efanele.
3.  Ukubona ikhekhe ephusheni kungase kubonise ubuciko nokuyingqayizivele empilweni yakho yomshado. Ungase udinge ukujabulela isikhathi sakho futhi uhlele izikhathi zakusihlwa ezikhethekile ukuze uphumule futhi ugubhe ngendlela ehlukile. Ukuqhamuka nemibono emisha nokuzama izinto ezahlukene kungangeza ukuhlukahluka nokujula empilweni yakho yomshado.
4. Ikhekhe lingase livele ephusheni njengenkomba yokuncintisana noma inselele ebuhlotsheni bakho bomshado. Kungase kudingeke ukuthi uqondise amandla akho ekufinyeleleni izinjongo zakho zomuntu siqu nezomshado, futhi uwasebenzise njengesikhuthazo sokuthuthukisa nokuchuma nomlingani wakho wempilo.
5. Ungase ubone ikhekhe ephusheni njengesikhumbuzo sokubaluleka kokuhlangabezana nezidingo zakho nezifiso ebuhlotsheni bomshado. Kungase kudingeke ukuthi uxhumane nomlingani wakho wempilo ukuze uveze izidingo zakho futhi ufeze izifiso ezivamile.
6.  Ikhekhe lingase livele ephusheni njengophawu lobuhle nomlingo empilweni yakho yomshado. Kungase kudingeke ukuba uzinakekele kanye nokubukeka kwakho kwangaphandle, futhi unikele isikhathi esithile ekuphumuleni nasekuzinakekeleni. Ukwengeza ukuthinta kobuhle empilweni yakho yomshado kungaholela ekwengezeni ukuzethemba nenjabulo.

Incazelo yokubona ofile edla ikhekhe

1. Ukubona umuntu ofile edla ikhekhe kungase kubhekwe njengenkomba yesimo senjabulo nenjabulo umuntu oyibonayo ephusheni lakhe angase asithole. Ikhekhe limelela okunye kokudla okumnandi nokujabulisayo, futhi lapho abafileyo bebonakala besidla, lokhu kungaba ubufakazi bokuthi baphila ngenjabulo namalungiselelo avela kuNkulunkulu.
2. Lo mbono ungase ubonise ukuthi umuntu ofile uphila ngokuthula nangenduduzo ngemva kokufa. Uma sebekwazi ukunambitha nokujabulela izinto ezimnandi njengekhekhe, kungasho ukuthi baphila kwelinye izwe elingenazo izinkathazo nezingxabano ababhekana nazo kule mpilo yasemhlabeni.
3.  Abanye bakholelwa ukuthi ukubona umuntu ofile edla ikhekhe kubonisa ukuthi abaphilayo kufanele babumbane futhi babe ndawonye njengomzimba owodwa. Kuwubizo lokwakha izibopho nokuqondana phakathi kwamalungu omphakathi, nokusebenzisana ukuze kuzuzwe injabulo nempumelelo.
4.  Ukubona umuntu ofile edla ikhekhe kubhekwa njengophawu olungokomoya olungase lusho ukuthi abaphilayo bangase bazame ukuxhumana nezihlobo zabo ezingasekho. Ikhekhe lapha libhekwa njengendlela yokumelela okubonakalayo kokuhlangana nomphefumulo ofile futhi ufakwe emhlabeni wethu wangempela.

Ukusabalalisa ikhekhe ephusheni owesifazane oshadile

1. Kungenzeka Ukusabalalisa ikhekhe ephusheni kowesifazane oshadile Uphawu lwenjabulo kanye nesifiso sokuhlanganyela injabulo nomlingani wokuphila. Leli phupho lingase libonise isimo senjabulo nokwaneliseka ekuphileni komshado.
2. Ukubona owesifazane oshadile esakaza ikhekhe ephusheni kungase kube uphawu lokuzinikezela nokunakekela akunikeza umndeni wakhe nabathandekayo. Leli phupho lingase libonise amandla akhe okuphatha impilo yomndeni futhi ahlangabezane nezidingo zabantu empilweni yakhe.
3.  Ukusabalalisa ikhekhe ephusheni kowesifazane oshadile kungase kube uphawu lwempumelelo nokunqoba ekuphileni. Leli phupho lingase libonise ukufeza imigomo ebalulekile noma impumelelo yomuntu siqu umuntu aziqhenya ngayo futhi ajabule ngayo.
4. Ukubona owesifazane oshadile ehambisa ikhekhe ephusheni kungase kube inkomba yokumangala okujabulisayo noma ukugubha empeleni. Leli phupho lingase lisho ukuthi kunezinto ezinhle ezizayo empilweni yowesifazane noma yomuntu siqu.
5. Ukusabalalisa ikhekhe ephusheni kowesifazane oshadile kungase kube uphawu lwesifiso sokusondelana nokuxhumana nomphakathi. Leli phupho lingase libonise isidingo sokwabelana nabanye ngombono omuhle nolwazi futhi siqhubeke nobudlelwano bomphakathi.

Ukudla ikhekhe ephusheni

1.  Ukudla ikhekhe ephusheni kuwuphawu lwenjabulo nenjabulo. Leli phupho lingabonisa isikhathi esijabulisayo empilweni yakho yesikhathi esizayo noma umcimbi obalulekile ozayo okufanele uwugubhe.
2.  Iphupho mayelana nokudla ikhekhe kungase kubonise isifiso sokuphazamiseka nokuzijabulisa. Mhlawumbe uzizwa udinga ukuzijabulisa okuncane futhi ujabulele ukuphila. Zama ukuthola isikhathi sakho sokuphumula futhi ujabule.
3. Iphupho lokudla ikhekhe lingafanekisela ukuhlanganiswa komphakathi nokuhlala ngokuthula nabanye. Leli phupho lingakhombisa isifiso sakho sokuba nobudlelwano obuhle nobusebenzayo namalungu omphakathi okuzungezile.
4. Iphupho ngokudla ikhekhe ngezinye izikhathi liwumvuzo wemizamo eyenziwe. Leli phupho lingase lifanekisela ukuthi ufanelwe ukubongwa nokunconywa ngezimpumelelo zakho nezimpumelelo zakho. Ungase ube namandla okuzuza izinto ezinkulu futhi ujabulele imivuzo yazo. Ukuphupha udla ikhekhe ephusheni kubhekwa njengesibonakaliso esihle. Ifanekisela injabulo, injabulo, ukuzwana kanye nobuhle.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nokudla ikhekhe le-chocolate lowesifazane ongashadile

1.  Leli phupho lingase libonise ukuthi owesifazane ongashadile ufuna ukuzijabulisa futhi ajabulele izinto ezincane eziletha injabulo, njengokudla ukudla okumnandi njengekhekhe leshokoledi.
2. Ushokoledi uwuphawu lothando nenjabulo, ngakho ukuba nayo ephusheni kungase kubonise ukuba khona kwesifiso sobulili empilweni yowesifazane oyedwa.
3.  Ukudla amaswidi kuhlotshaniswa nenjabulo nokunethezeka kwengqondo. Leli phupho lingase libonise isifiso sowesifazane ongashadile sokuthola uthando nokunakekelwa ngokomzwelo.
4.  Ikhekhe likashokoledi libhekwa njengokunye kokudla okumnandi nokumnandi okungaletha injabulo nenjabulo. Mhlawumbe owesifazane ongashadile kudingeka azinike isikhathi sokuphumula futhi ajabulele ukuphila.
5. Kowesifazane ongashadile, iphupho mayelana nokudla ikhekhe le-chocolate lingase lifanekisela isifiso sakhe sokushada nokwakha ubuhlobo obuqinile ngokomzwelo. Lokhu kungaba iphupho eliveza izifiso nezifiso ezisuka enhliziyweni.

Ukuhunyushwa kwephupho mayelana nekhekhe lokuzalwa

1.  Ukubona ikhekhe lokuzalwa ephusheni kungase kubonise injabulo nenjabulo, njengoba ukugubha usuku lokuzalwa kubonisa isikhathi senjabulo nokuzijabulisa. Iphupho lingase libonise ukuthi izikhathi ezijabulisayo ziyeza empilweni yakho, nokuthi ufanelwe ukugubha impumelelo yakho kanye nezimpumelelo zakho.
2. Ukubona ikhekhe lokuzalwa ephusheni kungase kube inkomba yokufeza inqubekelaphambili ebalulekile yomuntu siqu noma yobungcweti empilweni yakho. Ungase ube nesizathu esiqinile sokubungaza impumelelo yakho kanye nempumelelo yezinhloso zakho njengamanje.
3. Uma uzizwa unesizungu noma uhlukanisiwe empilweni yangempela, iphupho mayelana nekhekhe lokuzalwa kungase kube ukubonakaliswa kwesifiso sakho sokugubha nokuhlangana nabantu abaseduze. Lokhu kuhumusha kungase kubhekisele ekubalulekeni kokuxhumana nabantu, ukuxhumana nabanye, nokwakha ubudlelwano bomphakathi obuqinile.
4. Iphupho mayelana nekhekhe lokuzalwa lingabonisa ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuhlola impilo yakho futhi ucabange ukuthi ukufeza kanjani ukukhula nokuthuthuka. Kungase kube nethuba lokuthi uthuthukise futhi ufinyelele imigomo emisha.